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What is it about holding a newborn in your arms? Your complete attention is focused on this precious little tiny being. The simple, timeless rhythms of feeding, changing and rocking take over. I find myself singing little nursery rhymes that I sang for my own kids. Maybe a little bit of French thrown in so she will hopefully have an ear for that language when she gets older. The past, present and future seem to coalesce in these bright blue eyes. I once said that my church gives me hope for the future. This baby seems to be a physical manifestation of that hope. It's very hard to explain, but is a part of the process of becoming an "elder". All of a sudden, new possibilities open up. All I know is, a new chapter is opening up in my life - or perhaps even a whole new book! Somehow she gives me courage to take on new challenges. Whatever has happened in the past seems to fade in importance. Being a grandparent is different from being a parent. I don't have to worry about the economics of providing for her. She has 2 very wonderful parents to do that. There are now other responsibilities, that are also a part of eldering. I can offer advice if asked, I can offer my time to help out. If allowed, I can pass on some snippets of wisdom based on my own experience. If given the chance, I may be able to teach my grandchild something about nature, or perhaps some old fashioned values, as my grandmother taught me. I can offer support to her mom and dad. The part about nature is especially important - valuing and protecting the Earth and all life. This is something that can and should be a focus for retired people. Find a project or a cause and go for it - we have nothing to lose, and everything to gain.
It's about creating a bridge between the past and the future. It's about standing up for truth, freedom, justice, the environment. If I seem to be rambling, I hope to bring everything together more logically in my next blog, but in the meantime, find yourself a little baby to hold onto, and see what happens!
Cheers
Sparky
